Does He Make You Feel Flawed?

In a relationship with a Red Flag Man, you may find yourself constantly on the defensive.

Your actions and your motives will be constantly criticized.

“ Your skirt is too short, your pants too tight, the soup is too salty, the taste is not right, your friends are dull, your judgement all wrong, your morals are shady, your skirt is too long, your hair should be blonder or longer or cut, stop talking so much I wish you’d shut up.”

Both the Borderline Male, and the Narcissist Male personality types, will use criticism to keep you on your toes, striving to please them, as well as to doubt your own self-worth. 

Because they need to boost   their own fragile egos, they will attempt to destroy yours. 

To feel all knowing, important, wise and powerful, they often employ a strategy of putting you down.

If you find that your boyfriend is audacious in his critical comments and corrections of you, know that you are with a Red Flag Man and skedaddle before you spiral downhill emotionally.

The outcome of hanging on to this relationship will be the loss of your self-confidence, no matter how accomplished you may be. You will feel fat even if you are not, dumb even if you are smart and boring, even though your own friends have always enjoyed your company and laughed at your jokes.

So, BEWARE! If little criticisms and negative comments seem to be increasingly creeping into his conversations with you, step back now!

The right guy will make you feel like the most perfect creature in the world.
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