Mixed signals?
Feeling confused?
Don’t be!
If you wonder why his words do not match his actions,
take heart!
The answer is simple!
Unless his ACTIONS match his WORDS, his words mean
nothing. ZERO.
So don’t stay up at night analyzing why he said he
would call you but he doesn’t, why he says he loves you but he doesn’t stay in
touch, or introduce you to his family and friends or make concrete plans for a
future with you, why he says you are the most amazing woman he has ever met and
he is thinking you have a future together, but you find out he is still pursuing
other women. No matter what pretty words he speaks, just remember this very
simple formula: Actions = Intentions.
Indecision is a decision. It is a decision to not commit to you.
Only a total pulling back from him, a creation of
distance from him, will help him get clarity. If he misses you, and he is truly
into you, he will do whatever it takes to make you his and his alone. If he is
feeling indecisive, and you attempt to play the role of the convincer, which is
the masculine role, you will achieve the opposite outcome of the one you
desire. He will pull back even farther and become even more indecisive.
Remember, a man must pursue you and not the
opposite. Your job is to stay in the feminine zone, and performing masculine-
energy actions such as initiating communications or suggesting get- togethers
will only drive him further away!
Don’t muddle the works by trying to make
something happen. If he misses you he will call you. He will make plans to see
you.
If he loves you, he will make a commitment to the relationship and will
want to be exclusive with you.
If he is feeling indecisive, pull back. Keep busy
with your life and date other guys. If he wants you he will come and get you.
If he doesn’t do that , then the wishy washy behavior was your answer. His
decision is not to decide for you!
NEXT!
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