Time to Walk Away

 

8 months into their long distance relationship, Joy realized that she had no idea if the relationship was progressing or not!

They didn't speak daily, he didn't even text her every day, yet when they were together the chemistry was palpable and they truly enjoyed each other’s company.

He sent flowers week after week for a month, and then the flowers stopped.

He came to town every few weeks, but often didn't attempt to make time for her until the evenings. What was he so busy with all day? He wasn’t at work...

Joy’s boyfriend sometimes alluded to a future in vague terms, but did not discuss any concrete plans. He never said “I love you”.

The clincher was when Joy invited him to spend the weekend with her and he was conflicted between doing that, and hanging out with his friend George!

Nuff said.

Betty was introduced to Robert by a mutual friend. They immediately clicked! Lots in common! Great chemistry! First kiss amazing! And then, on date 3 he told her he loved her!
Wow!

Next thing she knew, his phone calls and texts became less and less frequent and then stopped all together.  Betty was so confused! 

From “ I love you” to Nada?

 After ten days he texted her out of the blue and told her he would be in her area next week and would love to see her!

In a normal, healthy romantic relationship, the frequency of communication, and the quality of time spent together, is supposed to increase, not decrease. A man shows his interest by checking in regularly with his girlfriend and making plans to see her as often as possible.

If his interest appears to be waning, that is a Red Flag for the relationship.

An effort should be made to have a discussion of what is going on, and if the messages are still mixed or conflicting, it really is time to move on.

Don’t waste another minute not knowing where you stand!

Start Walking!

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