Does He Dis His EX?

JUST REMEMBER , once upon a time he was crazy in love with the "Ex" he is now bashing to you!

Moreover, the “monster”  he is describing to you today, could very well end up being YOU  tomorrow!

If your guy describes his ex -wife as a crazy psycho, chances are she may actually be a normal woman who grew so frustrated and fed up with him and his bad behaviors, and stuck it out with him as long as she possibly could, probably for “the sake of the children”, and then chose to leave him rather than go crazy.

A healthy normal man will be able to define the shortcomings in his failed relationship and to take at least some of the responsibility for it’s failure. If he places the total blame on his Ex, this is a major Red Flag! Beware of any man painting a picture of his ex as a perpetrator of endless evils.

Oh he may be charming and attentive to you now, in the pursuit stage, but sticking by this guy’s side is almost a guarantee that you will wind up his next victim, labeled by him as a traitor, a psycho, and/or a controlling power hungry  a- sexual manipulator.

Lenny expressed his total bewilderment to Betsy, as to why his wife of 25 years took his 3 young children and ran off to her parents’ home 3000 miles away, when he had been a
"wonderful and caring husband and provider"

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Carl ruminated over the many shortcomings of his ex, Irene, who walked out on him with their two kids with no warning, and forbade him to have any contact with them.

Both men described their exes as fools, incompetents, manipulators, etc.

If you are hearing similar tales from your new Prince Charming, please ask  yourself why any women would walk out on a loving, caring, normal father of her children.

It doesn’t happen that way ladies.

Please do your research, and learn to recognize this type of talk as a RED FLAG!