Does He Make Dates or Excuses?

The right man for you will not hesitate to see you and spend time with you, even when it’s inconvenient for him to do so. 

He will be unable to resist the pull to spend time with you and will make doing so his number one priority.

If the man you are interested in is coming up with excuses instead of dinner reservations, he is NOT  your guy!

Sometimes a man may keep stringing us along, making and breaking dates with us, because he is actually seeing someone else, and is not committed to either one of you yet, but wishes to keep his options open.

If you are seeing someone who makes and breaks a date more than twice in a row, know that his motivation level is lacking, and send him packing!

You are not to make yourself available as “filler” in his already busy schedule. You are also not to make yourself available last minute.

 You are not to be his “Plan B”.

Know that you deserve a well-planned out date, for which you are asked out at least 3 days in advance, and for which he has cleared his schedule. 

You are not a late night booty call. 

You are not a last minute quick bite to eat.

The more a man shows that he will spend time, money and effort to see you, the more you can be sure that he is emotionally invested in you and in building a relationship with you.

Do not pin your hopes on a luke warm, on again, off again level  of interest.

If you have a date but he calls to re -schedule because he promised to hang out with his brother, or he has a cold, or he is tired or preoccupied preparing for tomorrows case, he is NOT your man.

Go for the man who has set  spending time with you and ultimately possessing you,  as his highest goal to achieve.