If you are in a real relationship, you actually never have to have “the conversation”.
In a healthy normal relationship with a mature emotionally
available man who cares about you the relationship will progress.
- It will not stall out.
- He will not disappear.
- He will not shun you.
- He will call you.
- He will text you.
- He will have time for you and he will make time for you.
- He will want you to meet his family and his friends.
- He will proudly introduce you to the acquaintances he bumps into when out with you.
- He will make dates.
- He will plan for your future together.
You will feel
the momentum increasing as time goes by.
His attentions will increase, not
decrease.
He will invest in you financially as well as emotionally.
A man is a Hunter/Gatherer by nature. He is wired to do what
it takes to go out there and get what he
wants and needs.
If you are what he wants and needs you will realize it from
his words and actions.
Your relationship will not be a guessing game and you
will not be on the phone with your girlfriends for hours analyzing everything
he did and said or didn’t do and didn’t say.
His intentions won’t be a mystery
and your relationship won’t bring you misery.
If you are not hearing from your guy on a regular basis and
can not count on regular phone calls and dates, if he has not asked you to be
exclusive and if he is not making time with you a priority then you are not in
a relationship.
Move on out of this situation because you are on the slow boat to nowhere
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