It can be really hard to appropriately respond to the Red
Flags we see in our guy, if we are already hung up on him. Our brain white washes
the Red Flags that may have our friends and family wringing their hands in anguish!
They may be desperately trying to steer us away from someone while we languish
in dreamy denial, still certain that all will work out and love will conquer
all.
The aim of my upcoming book, Red Flag Man, is to educate
women about the Red Flags. How to identify them, how the dynamics of a
relationship may play out based on which negative trait the man has, and how he
may have developed that trait in the first place.
The bottom line is that the signs and symptoms that we see
early on are NOT going to vanish as time progresses. In fact, they will become
more and more pronounced, the more comfortable a man feels in the relationship.
So what you see is not only what you get, what you get gets worse.
Cheapness, pettiness, temper, substance abuse, lack of
empathy (narcissistic man), wild mood swings (Borderline disordered man), roving
eye (player), unemployment/inertia (passive, lack of ambition) are all going to
be there and be aggravating you long after the first blush of the romance has
worn off.
Yes he is hot now. He is into you and vis versa, but trust
me, you will not be happy with a man in the long run, if you are seeing any of
these Red Flags now. They all spell disaster for a relationship.
Here is a little example – If your guy wanders off just when
it’s time to pay for the few groceries you placed on the conveyor belt, or for
the movie tickets, he is CHEAP and he will always be cheap and never generous.
Who
needs him?
We simply cannot ignore the flaws we pick on. In fact, we
must take the time to carefully analyze them.
So don't let your crush turn your judgement to Mush!
You can learn about them in my
upcoming book Red Flag Man by Brenda Sassoon
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