STAY AWAY FROM YOUR CRUSH AND HIS RELATIONSHIP!

I have been getting lots of emails lately,  from women complaining to me that their boyfriends have female friends who try to undermine their relationships. 

They ask me if this is normal and acceptable.

The answer is NO.

I get emails from women who are that friend!

They are the friend of a man who is dating another woman.

They want their friend to drop his girlfriend and to date them instead, and they ask me how they can open the eyes of their male friend so that he will realize that he should be with them, rather than with his girlfriend.

The answer is – YOU CAN’T DO IT.

So to let me be perfectly clear.

When a couple is in an exclusive relationship, there should not be any female interference with that relationship.

No man should allow another woman to undermine his romantic relationship, to criticize his girlfriend, to flirt with him, or to in any way try to cause distance between himself and his girlfriend.

If he does allow such behavior he is not worth your time.

The mark of a good man is his desire to protect the woman he loves.

 If he prefers to be on an ego trip, allowing women to compete for him, you don’t need to be on this ride!

After all, if he jumps ship to be with any woman who flirts with him, then what have you got? 

You have got yourself a shallow player who you can never trust.

As for the women who want me to teach them how to show a man that he is better off with them than with his GF, this is an impossible task and it is also a ridiculous request.

Anyone who follows the RED FLAG MAN BLOG knows by now that men get turned off big time by  women who come on strong, initiate contact, romance him, pursue him,  do things for him, show up to “accidentally bump into him”,etc.  

You simply cannot prove to a man that you are better  for him than his GF.

Men enjoy and crave a challenge. They are wired from time immemorial to go out there and hunt for what they want.

Woman who throw themselves at a man hoping he will suddenly wake up and value them, or dump their girlfriends and choose them instead, are in for a rude awakening!

Keep away from men in relationships.  They are off limits to you.

Stop fantasizing about how to break up your Crush’s relationship and go get yourself a guy who is into YOU!

Exude confidence, independence and self-value.

That is the one and the only way attract Mr. Right to you.

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