Friday, March 2, 2018

Don't Go Crazy Trying to Rope Him In!





Yes you SHOULD always look your best for your BF or husband.
 Yes you SHOULD work out, eat healthy, and wear nice appealing outfits!

I am not saying its ok to hang out in sweats with no makeup eating junk food on the couch!

What I AM  saying is that you have value for being the person you are, and the man who is right for you will love and adore you, and you cannot make a man love you.

Either your guy loves you or he doesn’t. 

If your guy is drifting apart from you, and you have discussed it, and nothing has changed, then back away

Never come on strong with extra attempts to entice and delight him. 
Do the opposite. 
Vanish!

A man must be the pursuer through every phase of your relationship. He must court you. He must call you and plan dates.
If you try to plan dates, create magical candlelit dinners or entertain and monopolize him he will be turned off and pull away.

Just be your own cute fun self and that’s it.

If your guy isn’t into you, then move right on. 

No acts of desperation. No stalking. No suggestions for get togethers, NADA.
Please don't cheapen yourself girl!

If he misses you he knows where to find you and if he isn’t into spending time with you then you don’t need him.

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