Is it Real When He Comes On Too Strong, Too Fast?

Often we come across the “Master of the Mixed Message” who leaves us reeling, confused and unsteady on our feet because his signs and signals don’t match up with his words and actions.

Don’t fret! 

It only takes a few days, less than a month for sure, to discern this Red Flag!

He may flatter you with his attentions. Surprise you with his pronouncements of love and his vision of the future – all within the first week, and then disappear with nary a warning the next week.

This is an erratic individual.

Please realize that too much too soon is not a sign of love at first sight. It is a sign of instability.

A couple may be instantly attracted to each other, yes! They may immediately realize that they would really like to pursue this thing and see where it takes them, yes! However, if he tells you he loves you on date 3, and then you don’t hear from him for a day or two on day 6,7,or 8, you will find yourself wondering :

what happened? 

Does he still have feelings for me?

 Is he dating someone else?

 Does he have 2^nd thoughts about us?

 Did he fall for another woman?

 Did he fall out of love with me as fast as he fell in love?

 These thoughts are all very troublesome and uncomfortable.

The real truth is that when a man is crazy about a woman he doesn’t let a single day go by without contact, and nobody is too busy for a quick phone call or a text.

No woman should have to find herself in a position of feeling her head spinning from such mixed messages:

“He loves me, He is gone”

All women should take this Red Flag very seriously. If a man says and does too much too soon, you must force him to slow down and maintain a steady pace,  and you must not take his words seriously at all, unless and until you see that his actions match his words and he is in regular contact with you, remains interested and is busy making plans to see you again as soon as possible.

You can learn all about this type as well as many other Red Flag Men, in my upcoming book. 

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