Is Your Love the Real Deal?

In a relationship with a narcissist, or a borderline personality - disordered individual, you will find yourself making all of the concessions, feeling pressure to be what he wants you to be, when he wants you to be it. 

When it comes to dispute resolution, its his way or the highway and you are ALWAYS in the wrong. Usually, unless you apologize for being wrong, even when you are right, there will be no making up after a disagreement.

He will bring up past hurts and enumerate your "crimes", never moving past the past, whenever you are having a dispute.

To protect his fragile sense of self, he will lash out in temper in order to maintain control, rather than have an intelligent adult discussion of your two viewpoints.

If you are experiencing this in your relationship, beware! This is a RED FLAG MAN.