The man who is your own MR. RIGHT is the man who will do whatever he has to do to be with you and then to hold onto you . He is into you. He is crazy about you. He life is not worth living without you.
He does the chasing. He tries to win you over. He overcomes any obstacle to be with you.
He beams with pride and happiness when he is with you.
He brags about your great qualities!!
His life is devoted to making you happy!
DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS
Hi, advice needed pls!
ReplyDeleteMy boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years. Knew each other for 10 years prior. His parents love me. My parents like him but not us together. He's always been affectionate and caring
No doubt he loves me. He was incarcerated for about 9 mos. last year. I chose to stay and support him. When he came home everything was good. Things only got crazy a couple months ago. He started going places like to the club with his guy friend without telling me. I'd find out at the last minute or by luck of calling as it's happening. He always picks up the phone or texts back. I discovered he'd been liking females'pics on social media which was against an agreement we'd made when we began dating.He apologized and said it wouldn't happen again. However, last week I found that he was still doing it and these were pretty provocative. So out of hurt,I broke things off. He wanted to get back together.said he'd do whatever it takes to make things right.So we talked about things to improve in the relationship. But now he's going on a weekend guys trip that I'm not happy about. shouldn't he be with me focusing on the relationship and trying to make things work? Am I being controlling? I have been hurt by others many times in the past which he knows about. Will I ever be able to get over the hurt and anxiety? Or should I just break things off so I won't push him away? Thanks in advance!
Hi,
DeleteI would like to know the reason he was incarcerated??
Your guy has plenty of RED FLAGS and my advice is to heed the warnings and end the romantice connection with him. He is displaying a pattern and unless you want to live with that pattern, which you should not have to, you should move on.
If he was a reliable trustworthy man who was not crusing the internet looking at other women or clubbing (while in a relationship) then of course an all guys trip would be acceptable and normal. However, based on the info you have provided, I don't think you should trust this man with your heart.
One more thought...YES you will get over the hurt and anxiety when you are finally with "Mr. Right". Mr. Right will feel like a safe haven. You will never have to question him or his actions. He will love and respect you and will do his utmost to protect the relationship with you.
DeleteGood Luck!
I met a nice guy on a dating app back in January. I didn't have any expectation from day one because he made a comment about a horrible first date he had with a woman from the app. So I felt he saw me as a friend before even meeting me in person.
ReplyDeleteTo my surprise, after the first date he texted me saying that he was impressed with my accomplishments and the way I challenge myself.
Fast track, 4 months have passed, we have only got together 4 times for different activities, but I don't feel that we are dating. He texts me regularly but not everydau. We have lots in common.
The last time I saw him, he was being such a gentleman with displays of chivalry and slowly he has shown more affection. But we haven't kissed. I feel that I am hanging out with a nice friend.
He has invited me to join him in Mexico for a trip he's going to make. I work for an airline and I can travel easily
This guy is planning to live part time in Mexico, so I think timing is not right to commit for him and maybe that's why he changed his online profile from wanting a "relationship" to "I don't know yet"
I enjoy his friendship and I am not desperate for a relationship, we are both in our 50s. However, I am afraid that I can fall in love with him because he checks all the boxes and after the 4th time we hanged out I felt that I am starting to like him a lot.
What should I do?
You should not be overly available!
ReplyDeleteProject self worth!
Be busy and happy with your own life. If he wants a committed relationship with you let him work to get and keep you!
You should not be overly available!
ReplyDeleteProject self worth!
Be busy and happy with your own life. If he wants a committed relationship with you let him work to get and keep you!