If it feels like your boyfriend has been drifting away, creating distance, seeing you infrequently and making lame excuses why he is too busy to spend time with you as much as he used to, you may be tempted to dream up new and creative ways to draw him back towards you.
Of course this is your prerogative, but it’s a bad idea.
Never try to reignite his desire by doing anything at all
that can be perceived as “chasing”.
If a man has become distant and aloof, do not engage in any
of the following “chasing behaviors”:
Calling him
Texting him
“Accidentally” bumping into him
Asking his friends what he is up to
Inviting him over for any purpose
Emailing him interesting articles
Dropping into his home or place of work because you “happened
to be in the area”
In fact, if your man has drifted away, the best and most
positive course of action is to do nothing at all.
Go on with your life and start dating and socializing as much
as you can.
By doing that, you may either ignite his interest again
(although why would you want it?),
or find yourself in a great new relationship, which is way
more fun that racking your brains trying to lure a disinterested man back into
your orbit!
Replace him! Don’t Chase Him!
Happy Hunting!
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