When  should we Cut Bait and Move On in any relationship, Friend or Love Relationship?

If you find that you must constantly work to keep the peace between you.

If you must constantly work to keep another person interested in you.

If you find yourself frequently on the defense.

If you are walking on eggshells.

If you are feeling used, or abused.

If you feel an imbalance in the relationship in terms of who is doing/giving their share emotionally,and/or financially

If the relationship is stagnant because he can’t or won’t move you two forward to commitment, then it’s time to ABANDON SHIP.

Know that you cannot change another person. 

  You can sometimes inspire a healthy individual to be motivated to change the way he relates to you, but you cannot fundamentally change anyone except yourself.

Change comes from within.

When you read my upcoming book Red Flag Man, you will learn to recognize the signs of a hopelessly irredeemable relationship, and if your guy falls into the category of a "Red Flag Man", you will gather your strength, know that someone better awaits you out there, and Move On.