The Red Flag Man
by
Brenda Samuel
Now Available on Amazon
Right on time for the Holidays!
Treat yourself and all the ladies on your holiday list to the information they need to
Find and Keep
The Right guy and to AVOID The Red Flag Man!
Learn to identify the warning signs of a wrong relationship and to recognize and cultivate a great one!
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The Red Flag Man
Timeless Dating Advice on Who to Avoid and Why
by
Brenda Samuel
Are you in a relationship and going nuts trying to fiqure out WHAT'S GOING ON?
What does it mean when your guy does or says this or that?
Does he GHOST you all of a sudden for no apparant reason?
Did he come on sSUPER STRONG at the beginning only to fade away after you took the bait?
Have you been out together, bumped into his friends or family and NOT been introduced to them?
Does your guy SWITCH PERSONALITIES faster than the speed of light?
If any of the above are going on then you need to read The Red Flag Man ASAP!
Here I explain what's going on, why it's happening and what you should or should not do.
Looking forward to hearing your feedback!
Brenda
Here is the Forward to my NEWLY released book, writeen by Tova Weinberg, the book I have been promsing you, NOW available on AMAZON!
THE RED FLAG MAN
FYI, Tova Weinberg is an internationally renown matchmaker and was recently profiled in the New York Times!
Want to get smarter? Want to marry the right man? Then you must read the world's best summary of how to do it.
The book is called The Red Flag Man by Brenda Samuel. Brenda has fabulous idea of what NOT to and what TO look for in the right man.
Brenda has a smart analysis about the whole connection that can save you from being in a terrible relationship. It will teach you how to get out of a bad relationship and never duplicate it again.
I am a matchmaker and have been working as a matchmaker for 43 years, I use Brenda’s instinct and tactics of how to get rid of red flag men all the time when I talk to my clients about their bad relationships. The book teaches you the difference between men and women’s primary needs.
I have saved many couples from horrible relationships by telling them to read this book.
Every young woman should read this before attempting their first shot at a serious relationship.
This book makes very accurate portraits of the differences between men’s thinking and women’s thinking. This book as absolutely changed many of my single’s lives. Its has provided them with more self-awareness. The book also emphasizes the six primary unique love needs: Trust, acceptance, admiration, appreciation, approval, and encouragement.
It's imperative that women of all ages learn to recognize and take seriously the signs of an emotionally detrimental romantic situation.
Tova Weinberg
Red Flag Man
Stop complaining and start paying attention to the Red Flags that ALWAYS present themselves within the first 15 minutes of meeting a person.
If you chose to ignore bad behavior or rotten character traits, thinking he would change for you, guess again!
So take the time to get to know a person and to recognize Red Flags and learn when to step away!

RED FLAG MAN
The Mama’s Boy
The Mama’s boy is that guy who is quite obviously over- involved with his mom.
A telling sign of mental health in a man is independent living with healthy levels of family contact and interaction.
It is healthy if he makes his own decisions.
It is unhealthy if he has a compulsion to consult with Mom before making basic life choices such as “what shall I order for lunch?” “where shall I go on vacation?” or “shall I continue to date this girl?”
While it is admirable when a man is respectful and considerate of his mom (and all of his family members), it is another matter entirely if he is overly connected to and compelled to include his mother or consult with his mother, in his daily life. It is a RED FLAG if he takes it to the extreme by including his mom in his dates, allowing his mom to interfere with his relationship or sharing details of his intimate, private life with her.
Can your boyfriend make an important purchase or decision without consulting his mother?
Does his mother wind up sometimes coming along on your dates?
Does he discuss the intimate details of your relationship with his mom?
Does his mom have a green light to drop in on him/you two, unannounced?
Does he compare you to his mom?
Does he mention his mom’s style of dressing, cooking, working out, etc?
Is he capable of committing to you despite the fact that you may not represent his mother’s ideal choice of a mate for him?
A man who has not been able to coast along without the constant interference, approval and consultation with his mother will not make a good husband or boyfriend in the long term.
The primary focus of a boyfriend or husband is supposed to be on his partner, not on pleasing his mother.
It is important that an adult partner is one who has launched. Visiting the nest occasionally is fine but running back to it or constantly seeking guidance from his parents is an indication that he is not fully functional as an adult. Most importantly it shows that he is not capable of running his own household or heading up his own family, as he lacks the self confidence to do so.
If your boyfriend wants to bring his mom along on some of your dates, live with or in very close proximity to his mom, regularly prioritize his mom’s needs and desires over yours, this is a big RED FLAG.
If this is the current situation, it is more likely than not to remain that way.
YOU are not going to change this dynamic.
Change comes from within a person and not from the pressure or demands of another. Even if he agrees to change the dynamic in order to keep you around, the change is unlikely to last unless he goes for therapy, and even then, there can be no guarantee.
The old adage “What you see is what you get” should be kept in mind if you are involved with a Mama’s boy.
Don’t accept second place. If he is a Mama’s boy, leave with grace.
