Lately I have received emails from women wondering :
Is it a good idea to send their BF a “raunchy” pic of themselves?
If you have been following the Red Flag Man Blog, you will
guess the answer I would give to that one!
It’s a Resounding NO!!
It is always a bad idea to send naked pics of yourself, never
mind “raunchy” naked pics, to a man (or
anyone else for that matter).
Suggestive, alluring, sexy pics which do not reveal too much
skin the best way to go!
When to send such pics?
If you two are in a long distance situation, it’s a nice
idea to very occasionally send your guy the gift of a tasteful, alluring, sexy pic
of yourself- One that does not reveal
any private body parts but has just the suggestion of what’s under wraps
and waiting for him.
To the wife or girlfriend whose guy is far away for a period
of time, do send him a pretty, tasteful , sexy pic of yourself with just the
hint of what he is missing.
This is not a good idea if you and your BF are seeing each other
on a regular basis because it comes off as very pushy, needy and overly flirtatious.
Remember, I want you always ever so slightly aloof and unobtainable, not
grabby, needy and overly available. Not coming on too strong!
Whats wrong with sending overtly sexual “raunchy” photos?
He will enjoy them right?
The answer is yes he will enjoy them, and he will also get
bored with you, and lose all respect and
interest in you!
Men want to be attracted enough to enjoy the challenge you
present and they want to pursue and conquer you. They do not want to read the
last chapter of the book before they start the first page.
