Wait and See if He Is Your BF

Is he calling you daily?

Is he asking you out at least once a week?

Is he making you a priority in his life?

If yes to all 3, then you have got yourself a boyfriend

But if not, stop stressing

 Stop questioning the “relationship”

If he isn’t doing all of the above, then he is not your boyfriend and you do not need to be concerning yourself with going out of your way to please or impress him

You don’t have to let him know you like him

You don’t have to:

 call him

 text him

 “accidentally” bump into him

 ask his friends about him

  travel to his location to visit him,

 be with him, or live with him

Only when a man has invested his time, energy, money and emotions into you, and has made it crystal clear that he is into you and wants and even needs to be with you, do you have yourself a boyfriend.

If he is still hanging with his ex

If he is too “busy” to spend time with you

If he doesn’t call you EVERY DAY

If he prefers to hang out with his friends, his family or alone

HE IS NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND

Do not make any sacrifices for him nor go to any expense or effort for him

Just live your life, hang with your friends and family

Do your thing

Be independent!

Focus on school or career

Focus on your friends and your family

If he likes you

If he is THE ONE

He will show it

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