Lately I have been getting mail from women who tell me that
their boyfriends no longer give them attention, don’t seem interested in them, are
not into spending time with them, are
not motivated to make plans with them, and in some cases, who have actually
broken up with them.
These women tell me
they are feeling frustrated and they are also confused and are wondering if
their boyfriend still loves them, but may be afraid of love or afraid of
showing their true feelings.
What should they do?
They ask me.
Ladies is it very very simple and if you have been following
the Red Flag Man Blog, you already know the answer.
In cases such as these the only thing that you should do is MOVE ON.
Just forget about any man who is not displaying signs of
interest in you.
There is nothing else you can do.
In fact, his behavior towards you and his attitude towards
your relationship is actually the answer to your question!
Don’t replay love scenes in your mind from the beginning of
your relationship or worry that he has some secret problem and may need your
help and support.
Unless your guy is sending you clear signals that he loves
you and wants to be with you, it is a dead relationship.
Now is the time to focus on yourself. Go to the gym, focus
on success in school and at work, hang out with your girlfriends and put the
boyfriend out of your mind,
If anything changes, he will come and find you, trust me.
But please don’t accept crumbs of a relationship or cling to
past memories. Do not waste time on any man who is not giving you the time and
attention and confirmation of his love that is your right.
Always remember that when a man loves a woman, he makes sure
that she knows it.
He cannot bear to be apart from her and he keeps in contact and makes plans to be
together.
That is the sign of a viable relationship.
I am happy to answer your questions, but you better be prepared for the cold hard truth!
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